“Main terey deevay baalda tun marray deevay ball malika.”
These are the words I heard as a boy from my mother. I don’t know where she had learned this but it was like poetry she sung which got stuck in my brain. It was such a long time ago that I can’t find the source and I must state that the author is unknown.
The translation is that and I quote,” I light your lamps, O God you light my lamps”.
This may appear simple but to me, the whole philosophy of my Blog is explained in these few words. Religious beliefs or not, the importance of a human individual can not be denied, so in a spiritual nutshell, individually we all need to recognize our value. God can easily say that I did my job by providing you a perfectly functioning internal and external universe so you can live and enjoy your mortal life while you reciprocate. If you always want more into your life you may put more efforts into it and you must understand how. For example, you just can’t go to a mosque or a church and pray to grow bigger muscles. You have to go to gym lift heavy weights and work hard to make your muscles grow bigger. At the same time never forget your mortal nature and the abilities I have installed within you. You are more responsible for your actions and achievements that you have been taught to believe. Your belonging groups have political agendas and political reasons to make you believe that you are insignificant, unimportant, weak and a sinner, so it is your duty to be a CEO and recognize the politics behind all the rules, traditions and customs of your belief system.
Back to the love triangle.
This triangle has been an ongoing subject for me because it connects us to our core and help us as an individual to understand what we were meant to be. Our continuous potential is ingrained into us to reach where God had meant for a human to reach. Whether we get there or not has a lot more to do with human beings than what we have been preached. We have the ability and choice to make the predictions of holy books come true or change the outcome.
You can believe in doomsday and intentionally use weapons of mass destruction and get it over with or choose to start working against it. We have the know-how and why we have things going wrong right now with global warming-related weather extremes. Ozone can be changed for the better or worse depending on humanity how it believes pessimistically or optimistically. When you believe in God it is or at least it should be all about hope and optimism yet most of the religious people believe in doom and gloom for this world. Yes it is all rosy in heaven, my question is if you are not happy and content in living years how are you going to change in heaven? I would bet you are going to give even God a really hard time to please you.
If God asks us I gave you the continuously evolving potential why don’t you keep evolving? We have been doing a pretty good job but in select departments of life. Our religious extremists from all schools of thoughts have been coming in the way. Most of them believe that we will be destroyed by God even it has not happened for thousands of years and it may or may not happen for another million years.
This belief says that God is like a human being who gets mad and is vengeful. Uses politics of carrot and stick or in other words heaven or hell. We have been using this philosophy for training animals and if you believe that we are no more than animals then keep believing that. To me, I am an optimistic being and have hope that we would be proven one day that we are not just like animals we are the vessels God brings spiritual tasks into physical reality with. We have been ripped right from our beginning. We have been created to be a choice maker who can overcome animal instincts regardless of its strength. Humanity has been evolving regardless of constant resistance from the people who want to keep the status quo. There always has been and will be a segment of the population of the world is willing to help the weaker and vulnerable so regardless of animal size and strength we are still working to evolve for the better and it is all because of our natural makeup. We can go and try to understand scientifically how our life came to existence or why do we believe in God while we are still continuously evolving. Whether it is scientifically proven or not this Godly matter is not for the mass it has always been still is and will always be for the individual. How one lives a mortal life with ease and gives up all the material things and people they come to love and attach. Our reality is mortality so our wisdom is and should be how to live a life as a visitor. Especially if we are the CEO of our lives. Understanding and living life with numbers and science may be good for certain kind of individuals who are willing to help coming generations but most of the time or logically a short visit should be lived with success in all areas of life. For instance, if you are just living intellectually physical satisfaction, emotional and spiritual fulfillment can be lacking so the real happiness and contentment take a back seat yet in mortal life. It could be a loss for an intellectual being. We need to zigzag between intellect and our physical mortal life, choosing one is just not for a living human being, we are not an animal nor we are just a spirit so understanding and ourselves as a mortal human being is important. Our mortality should overrule everything but fortunately or unfortunately depending on how the individual thinks. We somehow live our lives sacrificing our most important things and don’t even experience our lives to the fullest just because we want to be right.
We bring along and are dressed with compassion, forgiveness, trust, respect, personal sense of justice and above all the ability to love and sacrifice. If you are stuck into the intellectualism and never enjoyed physicality what a mortal life offers. It is a loss, sure one can live with numbers and science but our spiritual jewelry should not be undermined. Since spirituality is universal and is present in all human population and people from all walks of life. Race, color, gender, nationalism or belief systems are taught and passed on knowledge. Ability to be spiritual, I would say we all bring it along from before birth. If we wear our human jewelry with pride and prove that we are not just created as animals, we will prevail and change the outcome what most religious people have been predicting as doomsday.
If I am expected by God to be a human being and evolve to continuously reach my continuous potential then I have to put some efforts into my evolution in all departments of life instead of locking myself into the boundaries of human insecurities related belief systems whether it is scientific or religious. One can choose to stay into those boundaries for themselves but should not insist on and force others around to keep with them.
We all have our duties to perform as the purpose of our life and I happen to believe that I have a duty to reach my continuously evolving potential. I believe in God, spirituality, and humanity over any human knowledge. Religious, scientific or otherwise we still have to evolve and learn to live with each other in peace. I know I have high expectations from people to overcome their politics of a sense of belonging to their respected groups but as I said before I am an optimist and I hope people can see their extreme will always be related to the politics of their sense of belonging to groups.
I strongly believe if we stay trenched into differences of our belief systems we may use our weapons of mass destruction and bring the predicted outcome onto ourselves. God may not have the mission to physically kill himself but if we destroy our planet before reaching to stars we can not only take the spirituality out of us at the same time we can take physical abilities of God away as well. There may be a spiritual world after humanity but right now it is human beings duty to make God physically meaningful by evolving in all areas of life equally.
Just look at history and all our advancements in all areas of our life, from science and technology to medicine to social systems, it is all done by living breathing human beings. Sure with the help of God because we can’t survive without the blessings of God. Like physically functioning bodies, properly functioning universe to provide us with oxygen. We should all be humble with our progress and evolution because we can only function with the help of the things we have absolutely no control over. God lives in throughout humanity because human beings find that their lives are not possible without the help of that unknown. We may solve our riddles of life with time but our real task is to learn to live with each other without political killings.
We have no control where and when we are born, we have no solid and scientifically proven, or with video evidence to prove that there is a world and life after we die. Other than what we have been taught by our belonging groups. We don’t know what and who God is? So to me what happens after life should be left for the afterlife, we should stop sending people to live after death just because we don’t agree. Instead of going to wars and killing each other over who is right about the things we don’t even know. We need to take personal and individual responsibilities to perform properly in our living years because God’s work is done by living human beings. Find me a physical good deed done by a dead person, a physical action spiritual or otherwise requires a living breathing functioning human being.
Responsibilities of continuous evolution are on the shoulders of each and every one of us period. If we start to put ourselves in a box because of our political influences or put ceilings on our thoughts, we are doomed before even we get somewhere. From natural disasters to accidents to unknown events are still the things human beings have to learn about, understand, adapt to, survive to follow and reach our continuous potential. We need to not only think about the words from our taught knowledge, but we also need to understand what is going on inside of us as an individual. To understand clearly, our knowledge has several departments not just science and technology or religion exclusively. We have to learn about emotions and politics of a sense of belonging to our groups as well. We need to understand why do we all have free will and why we should be individually responsible for our actions.
Why do we have the potential to love and sacrifice for others or even strangers? Why two perfect strangers have the ability to create a family? Why people help each other without hesitation during some kind of disaster? Why are we willing to go to war for our belonging groups and especially for our coming generations? Ability to sacrifice, where did it come from? Do you think it is a taught behavior? I individually don’t believe we do exactly everything that we have been taught.
To me, there is clear evidence and several examples of people like Mozart in music and Leonardo Deviancy and countless child prodigies. Did they learn or they have brought that knowledge along from before birth? Neglecting everything that is not scientifically proven is wrong for human beings because we are not just the numbers and we are constantly evolving, so no human knowledge, scientifically proven or otherwise is complete. It will still stay incomplete because we are in the process of infinite evolution.
Becoming an extremist in religious or scientific knowledge is against our evolution especially for a mortal individual so keeping arms open, respecting each other and adapting to constantly changing the world is the way it should be.
If you are an individual who is number oriented and want to research, you should research the ability to love, emotions, research human beings behavior so we can understand our sense of belonging to our groups which gives birth to ego, pride, and honor. Research to overcome our desire to be right research the reasons for our wars and why do we rob each other of love.
I would love to know love and why it is so powerful that it can make or break the human individual. A song comes to mind and I quote, ” Some say, love, it is a razer, that leaves your soul to bleed. I say, love, it is a flower, and you its only see. End quote”.
There is a connection between soul and love that is why we need to understand spirituality to overcome our racial, color, gender, religious, and national differences.
I am explaining what I know, it may change with more evolution but for now, we need to take our responsibility to understand. As a human individual we can’t just follow what we have been taught we have the responsibility to explore and reach for our continuously evolving potential. We need to understand our emotions a lot more than we have been because I believe in understanding life not only in its departments but in its entirety.
You can be a very good doctor or a scientist but if you don’t understand your mortal nature to see the gray between black and white you could lose out on enjoying what mortality has to offer. Yes, it is your happiness and contentment if you have missed out on that you have missed out. If you are a religious fanatic and want everyone to be just like you, you missed out on compassion and love so without these two you lost your spirituality and you should know a religious belief without spirituality is just nonsense and totally political.
To understand love one has to know the differences of the love triangle divisions and then learn to equally divide it because its the individual who suffers yet has the power to create balance in personal life. If you feel that you are not capable of taking charge you have to dig into your reasons. Ask yourself why are you able to make everyday decisions in all other areas of your life. Like, waking up, eating, sleeping, go to work or school but you somehow can’t make decisions to create balance in your day to day life especially when it comes to family nationalism and religion.
When you start looking for the cause just see if you can find your political sense of belonging as a reason. If it is out of control and you lean towards belonging groups authority more than yourself and your loved ones. You owe it to yourself to create balance in your sense of belonging and your sense of freedom to be a better human being.
I personally think, feel from my soul, and passionately would state from my heart, that it is absurd to kill yourself or your loved ones over the approval of your belonging groups. Sure they have a place in our mortal life but it is only us as an individual who has a say in our life. If we live in a society where an individual does not have a say, it is oppressing. In today’s world, it should not be acceptable regardless of where you live. All nations, groups or entities should be answering to someone. Equal human rights should be the foundation of all constitutions
If you think an individual has a say just look around where you are and around the world. Where you will find a lot of people who are brainwashed to the point that they can’t choose to use their personal sense of justice to create a balance between themselves, loved ones and belonging societies. They fight and leave their wives over their mother or family because their society says so.
In eastern societies, mothers are dominating and people are taught to respect mothers but not wives. In the west, a wife would have more rights over the mother because of social influences. It is a son’s duty to create balance into his triangle to put everyone into their own love compartment. Passionate love for wife or partner 33 %. Instinctive love for mother and family 33% and the rest for Universal love for the society he belongs to. If one can’t balance the responsibilities is not a good CEO so they would not be able to create this love triangle and choose one over the others.
Suppressive and authoritarian societies are notorious to promote mass over the individual to keep power in a few hands. Interestingly to me, it is the individual who dictates how much care they have for themselves, their loved ones and their belonging group. That is why regardless of the individual strength and equal human rights even the democratic and advanced societies are full of people with extreme and self-harming imbalances. From anorexia, bulimia, anxiety, depression, and even suicide for just to fit in, impress or being buried under the desire to be admired by the people around are common.
If you can’t balance between you, loved ones and the people you belong to. You need to get some spiritual strength and become the CEO of your life. Being a CEO helps the individual to become strong enough to create a balance not only in personal life but in all areas of association with others or even belonging groups.
All three corners of the love triangle surround the raw animal core, one may and can think that is what makes us believe that we have evolved from an animal. This core is where you are divided into two. You can call it human and animal as I say it, or you can call it good and bad or third choice would be God and Devil. This is where you can decide to choose, which side you are going to act under. This the reason why we can act differently at different times in the same lifetime. You can not judge an individual from their one action that is why we have lenient rules for juveniles. The maturity may or may not happen because of our inner core side of strength.
This core is where the human becomes a dancing bottle of extreme, this is where you can drink even God’s alcohol, get drunk and lose perspective of being a human being. Everything of being a human being is in balance, you can choose to be spiritual and not experience a physicality of mortal life. For instance enjoying the taste of food, the touch of other human being and good feelings of doing something for others. A life spent without the physical fulfillment of any kind or experience is not a successful and balanced mortal life.
It is just following an extreme, if you go to other side and live like an animal exclusively you just can’t experience spirituality related fulfillment so we can’t feed our you part as it is required to live a balanced life of a human being. If your good side overpowers, you dance for God exclusively and if your human side constantly beat animal side it may create extreme and swing backward to make you lose the battle and end up dancing with the Devil exclusively. Remember no one is purely good or bad we all have the potential to be good or bad at different times of our mortal lives, our two sides which I described in the title of this blog make us human beings. We are not metaphorically speaking angels, ants or bees, they are genetically designed to follow orders so thinking angels are somehow better than human beings is not true. To me we are human beings with free will, our actions are our personal choices so we are superior to angles because of our ingrained desires. We are beings with constant conflict from within, if we can act spiritually regardless of our animal instincts we are dealing with our selfish side to act selflessly. This contrary nature is not easy to live with, so acting to suppress our desires makes us superior to other creatures and yes even metaphorical angles. Ability to have compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love brings us to a status where angles can’t reach. Now to the politics of this, our belonging groups want us to be subservient like ants and bees so they preach us to be like angles. The motive behind all that is mass over the individual, to me in the spiritual world there is no injustice not even for one individual. If you choose to violate anyone’s rights it is political and yes even if it is for the mass. In an ideal world, the rule number one of spirituality is ” Don’t do to anyone what you don’t like done to you or your loved ones.” Remember as an individual we have a short life to live, and as a mass, we carry on living so this individual mortality should be respected by the mass with the same spiritual things like compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love. Back to the inner core. My first triangle and the title of this blog is,
Who flipped my triangle, God, Devil and human being.
As human beings deep inside of our core God is our one side and Devil is the other. The core which is surrounded with love. If you believe God and Devil before you, the world should function with or without human beings. Interestingly if you take human beings out of the equation altogether both sides automatically disappear with the human beings, so God and Devil both become like a ghost town. Everything is there but has no value until human being comes around. Remember it is the living breathing human individual who experiences and judges good, bad and the ugly side of extreme. If good and bad somehow vanishes human would still survive as neutral but removing human beings means stagnated and meaningless stillness. Existence and meaningfulness of God and Devil is dependent on the existence of living breathing human beings. It is the human being who puts physicality into the actions of good and bad. Spirituality means nothing if it is not actions based. Action is the one which is not done without the help of human physicality, so yes God and Devil are not to worship or hate. They can’t physically act on their own until we give them horsepower of human beings. That is why taking responsibility to be a spiritual being is a must for the modern day science loving and technologically savvy human individual. If your belonging groups want you to be warrior ants or worker bees, make sure to understand politics of a sense of belonging and rise up to be a spiritual human being and act accordingly to your real nature.
Our actions of good and bad can change with the education that is where our love triangle becomes crucial for our inner and outer peace. It can light you up or put you in the dark just like a light switch. The potential of becoming good and bad has been, is and will always be there for us. Our main and strongest influences are Love, Nationalism, and Religions. That is why we need to become a CEO of our lives so we can learn to own our actions, so we don’t do to anyone what we don’t like done to ourselves or loved ones.
That is one way of taking charge of what goes on inside of our core, otherwise, the politics of our belonging groups overrides our personal sense of justice. We become puppets and lose what makes us human beings. By losing our status of being a CEO we become not only susceptible to committing spiritual crimes against the others we even lose our sense of justice to the point that we can’t recognize even the innocence. We let the animal or our bad side win and let it take over our whole being yet we are taught to blame Devil for our actions. That weakness of the human individual is the one which feeds Devil to stay strong in humanity our human reason why humanity just can’t live in peace. It never has been, is and will be a group of people, it always has been, is and always will be an internally torn individual who has been letting the internal dark side win. That is why an individual’s inner peace is so important, and achieving inner peace is almost impossible for the individual who can’t claim their CEO status.
This is where you are highly influenced by the love you receive or don’t as you grow up.
Love, whether it’s universal, passionate or instinctive, is what makes us separate from the other animals and helps us to become workhorses of God because we do good things out of loving feelings not out of our physical genetics, you can only learn to override animal desires with the love you have learned growing up. Learn to balance all the corners of triangles to achieve inner peace to be spiritually healthy or enlightened especially when it comes to the love triangle.
Logically, if you find a new love, you can’t just disregard your kids who you instinctively love. You can’t just live your life for the community and disregard your family or leave your passionate love for other people. Just look around and see it happens all the time, our history is full of examples. Saati is or was a tradition from the Hindu religion where a wife would have to be burned alive with the husband’s dead body. This can explain how influential an individual or society can be. It all comes down to making a personal choice.
Balancing is not easy especially when you are brought up with the politics of a strong sense of belonging to your belonging groups. Always remember as an individual you are created and are designed with free will ingrained within you. Yet with opposing and conflicting core as well so it is very important to understand your personal authority and learn to self regulate.
You come with or are blessed with free will and personal sense of justice from before birth, which automatically makes you a potential CEO from before birth. Being the CEO of your life makes you utilize your abilities to make the right decisions. Unfortunately we can be influenced so to be a good person spiritually for yourself and others around is a personal choice so it can go either way.
Why I said a good person spiritually is because if you believe you will become a good person by the approval of your belonging groups it is not enough. You need to know and use your personal sense of justice to be spiritually good. If you only know what your belonging group says remember it is political so you may be influenced to make choices. Remember if it is political it’s not spiritual if it is spiritual it can’t be political. Doing good is not bound in groups it has been, and will always be universal so committing a spiritual crime against some innocents who are belonging to the opposing group is still a spiritual crime if it is done for a group you choose to belong you are under the political influences. If you have a strong personal sense of justice and you to act accordingly, it will automatically be spiritual and for humanity as a whole.
If your good side supersedes your animal side your instinct, would you be spiritual and Godly? You spread very well to nearby people within the group you choose to follow or belong to, but you would also be able to become good even for the opposing groups as well. You choose spirituality over your religion, nation, race or gender. Since your insecure side has the potential to throw you off balance you can be susceptible at any given time. These imbalances can influence you to, not only give a bad name to love, it can lead you to become animal more than you should. Our animal traits are dangerous because we are becoming very smart as well so a smart animal has the ability to hide bad intentions and use cunning politics to use and abuse even God for political purposes never mind people around.
Trust, forgiveness, sacrifice, respect, and compassion gives real meanings to love just like education of spirituality makes an individual be a good human being? Love has the power to transform humanity, one individual at a time.
If they are taken away, love is no more than just a word. You will be influenced by your animal side to use love word to manipulate others to commit spiritual crimes even against your own loved ones. Yet love is the one which can provide the highest level of security to us. We rely on it from childhood to advancing age. Our families and societies survive and thrive on our love yet we are taught to rob each other of love by our nations and religions because it is a known fact if the human individual is hurt they will seek revenge so they can easily be used for political purposes. A loss of love has the potential to hurt us deeply in the core or I should say it can make our soul bleed.
Since each and every one of us is equally torn in the core, our surrounding love is not only the responsibility of the individual we need to understand it even as societies. An unhealthy person has the potential to not only become bad for other individuals they can be bad and burden for the society in general. If the surrounding love is balanced, individual can benefit from it to win the battle of the core and in the long run, society benefits from it as well. If you are able to get good loving education from all corners of love triangle you would be able to overcome and be able to dominate your animal side.
It takes the strength of a CEO to run all departments of life including creating balance in the core. Our religions and societies have been trying to teach us an education based on the wrong strategy they want us to kill the animal side and become only a good or Godly being but this can take away what a human being is all about. This wrong education is the main reason why human societies are still entangled with social and spiritual crimes.
You can’t just kill the animal inside of you because that is your physical side which holds very important cards as I said even God and Devil can’t survive without human physicality. First of all, you just can’t live without a physical body period. Your body puts physicality into your spirituality, all the good depends on your physical actions and you can’t perform well or period without a physical body. It creates balance in all the enjoyments of mortal life and reminds us to come down on the earth to live like a human being. It reminds us to be happy in all circumstances instead of reaching to achieve something and sacrificing everything including happiness and contentment and then die. Knowledge of mortality is constantly reminded to us by our animal side but our belonging groups insist on us to kill the animal side. The politics behind this is to make us subservient so we comply and sacrifice for our belonging group. We don’t enjoy our mortal visit and then we die which is absolutely against the mortal individual. As a CEO it does not fare to you so the best way is to find balance, not choosing one or the other as extreme what makes us all a human being. It is in making deals and creating a balance so you are not torn in the core. Doing justice to others and yourself is to live like a loving human being with inner peace.
When you are taught to serve, pray and die it is control related political education with bias. This has nothing to do with God or spirituality. It wrecks and stinks like a politics of control for the mass which is unfair to the individual. If it is not about equal human rights to all, it means it is not from God. We are here to do God’s work but our life is given to us to enjoy our mortal journey as well. If you are a CEO you should be able to see the politics hidden behind our religious rules, tradition, and customs. If you are the one who believes we are no more than ants, or bees you are not looking at your free will and continuous evolving potential as God’s Will. If mass rights promoters hide their insecurities related prejudice and discrimination against the individual, it is a spiritual crime because politically are you getting God involved in human insecurities.
By now if you have achieved your CEO status you have become an opinionated being so the people around you who have politically tainted strong religious opinions they are not going to like your way of thinking regardless of your character, always remember you have to live with yourself all the time so being torn inside is not a good place to be especially if you have limited time to live.
As a CEO if you keep eye on and personally judge your belonging groups’ related rules, traditions or customs you will and you should always stand for justice. If the injustice is done especially by mass against the individual it is like a big bully pushing their weight around yet no one is standing against. Remember it is the individual who is mortal and loses a life, as a mass we keep going so any rule which violates individual rights should be stood against.
As a CEO you have a personal sense of justice, if you don’t use it you can develop some inner conflicts and suffer from some consequential disorders in your already mortal life.
No one can care about your personal and all rounded health more than you because it is you who suffers. You should keep a focus on clean and inner conflict free mortal life. If someone is robbing weak and vulnerable right in front of you, stand up for them because it may not be religious but it is a spiritual thing to do. Injustice is not part of spirituality regardless and yes even it is based on religious preaching so don’t let the politics of even powerful sense of belonging effect your spiritual truths because at the end of the day you have to live within yourself. If you ignore this fact you may end up with inner conflict-related illnesses.
Always remember personal and even in general justice system is like spirituality, it is and it should be simply and purely truth based. Cheating in any way is a crime plain and simple. If we meddle with spirituality and justice system with the politics of our sense of belonging they lose their importance and value especially for you as an individual.
One can say if you have justice system ruling a nation you would not need politics just like if an individual is ruled by a spirituality that individual does not need religious knowledge or religious preaching to be a good person.
Now look around and observe the root causes of our personal, social and in general world problems. They all are related to the political influences of the sense of belonging to our groups.
At home a father or mother want their kids to be raised according to the rules of belonging national traditions, and customs of their religions or in general what is popular in that society in the era they are born in to. If the kids don’t want to follow, well it is obvious there would be conflicts and bad relationships of a love triangle. The root cause is political influences we feel from our belonging groups. If it is against spirituality or justice, it is too bad what people are going to say is very important to us so even our love takes a hit.
I divided our love into three parts for a reason, one should become a CEO who can easily understand and deal with everyday problems and as a CEO we all have a duty to balance it with our personal sense of justice.
If you choose with your personal sense of justice you would be able to create balance in love triangle otherwise you would choose one over the other and suffer the consequences.
Love has nothing to do with saying the word to each other, its all about doing loving things for each other. It’s about believing, trusting, respecting, using compassion and sacrificing unconditionally. It is not an external thing nor it is for the other person or people. Its what happens or what goes on deep inside of you at the soul level individually. Remember you have to be honest with yourself and others equally others may go away but you have to live within your skin till the day you die.
Sure hormones play a role in exaggerating our emotional responses but love itself has roots deep into our soul that is why some people can’t forget and forgive love loss. A lot of killing goes on every day, it has always been and will go on until we really understand what we really are. We can’t overcome the pain of love loss so revenge of love loss will go on.
We as societies and as individuals should take notice and avoid robbing each other of love at all cost, even if it is demanded by the politics of our belonging groups remember our perpetual wars are fueled by our personal and individual love loss.
Ability to love itself comes along or we all bring along from before birth, it may change with our life circumstances but it is not what it is. Its all about our capability to love each other. This capability is not a learned behavior, its ingrained deep into our DNA or I should say, soul.
We have lots of love stories in all human societies explaining how far a human individual can go for it. We have the capability to sacrifice even the ultimate. We kill and die for all three corners of the love triangle all the time. Passionate love is at an individual level, instinctive love is at the family and personal friends level and universal love is for nation or religion. We go to wars for it, kings have left their kingdoms for it, it has the power to change people’s behaviors towards their belief systems. It can heal or make you sick. What is it? Why don’t we understand it? Why do we seek it regardless of age and mortality? If it was a learned behavior it would be undone able as well. Humanity has spent more efforts and resources on love than any and every other thing put together. Start seeking the reasons for your actions and you will end up on love as a starting point, either for love, to secure love or seek revenge for the love loss.
Look at it this way if you say I love you don’t be political. Use compassion and put yourself in the receiving end before acting.
Look around and see how much of this is going on around you and catch yourself if you yourself are playing the game of love the wrong way. Dig in and be honest and straight forward with yourself. Catch yourself if do or feel this way.
I love you but I don’t really care about you.
I love you but I don’t really trust you.
I love you but I don’t really respect you.
I love you but I can’t really sacrifice anything for you.
I love you only because of social influences, I have to fit in with the social norm.
If you here or feel the word love from yourself or others and that word does not consist care, trust, respect, and sacrifice then that word “love ” may be politically tainted and yes even if it is from yourself. People with insecurities can use this as tools to manipulate, use and abuse, others to secure their own beliefs. Whether it is financial, sexual or otherwise, individuals, people, nations and even religious entities extensively use the love word for their own and personal interests.
It is up to the individual to see whether the word love consists and carry its value. If you think the word love is empty of its meanings, you have to know more about it. Why does the word love has so much strength in it? It is just because of compassion, care, trust, respect, and sacrifice!
When you mix your religious rules, especially if they are based on political influences of belonging groups, there would always be room for injustice. Spirituality with injustice is no spirituality. Justice is not justice if it is not blind to color, gender, race, nation or religious beliefs.
I doubt you can expect true justice from political appointees just like you can’t expect a mullah, priest or rabbi to agree with spirituality over their religious differences. They have been fighting for thousands of years for the politics of a sense of belonging to their religions so why would you expect or hope they would change in the next two thousand years.
Politics of sense of belonging is too powerful for a mullah, priest or a rabbi to become a CEO and stand against their own religion to preach spirituality based equal human rights for all regardless of friend or foe.
Lady justice has been blindfolded for a reason but that reason has never been pure of political influences. Our groups influence the individual to the point that one group’s justice is an injustice to the other belonging groups. Meaning one can commit a spiritual crime against other human beings even the innocents’ ones yet be hailed as a hero by their belonging groups. It is the most common thing in today’s societies of the world.
Spirituality is buried and deep under the politics of a sense of belonging, it is so far deep that even in modern days with all the advancements we still can’t stand individually against our belonging groups. We have created a political environment that we made individuals kill their own and personal sense of justice.
If mullah, priest, and a rabbi of the past were able to follow spiritual truths there would not be religious wars plain and simple. Our political sense of belonging is like an infection that has spread throughout humanity. We still have not been able to cure ourselves of this illness because no one has preached equal human rights until the present time. Still, our conservative friends want to keep the status quo, give the power to groups and actually they still keep their dream alive to rule the world with power and keep everyone else as slaves to their belonging groups. The world has been changing right before their eyes yet they still believe in prejudice and discrimination based politics. They still are not willing to come out of the boundary lines of the religions and talk about equal human rights. They are in minority yet very loud and use violence to be relevant. They do not or can’t believe that a human individual is the CEO of their lives. They are unable to comprehend that a human individual can have a personal sense of justice and is able to self regulate. A real and personal sense of justice is above and beyond the political influences so if an individual is able to evolve to the point that they can question all the injustices done by the belonging groups can be frightening for political entities. This personal sense of justice is in the foundation of our good and loving actions. This ability is the one that made us evolve and become human being from an instinctual animal. This ability is the one that makes us go crazy to the point that we have the ability to even kill ourselves out of guilt.