RECIPROCATION, SHAPES OF EVOLUTION AND HUMAN ATOM OF AUTONOMY.

I personally don’t believe being good out of fear of hell or greed of heaven so for a spiritual entity like human beings we should evolve from that education of carrot and stick philosophy. Animals may be trained by the carrot and stick but as human beings we don’t stand in that line up. Since we are capable of controlling our animal instincts simply by education and understanding of spiritual responsibilities. Proof is in the pudding lowest crime rate societies of the humanity are not even religious. They encourage education over strict punishments because those barbaric punishments are below our compassionate human nature. Being good is a personal and individual responsibility of us all and is connected directly to our reciprocation with God. In actuality our good deeds are not our prayers or pilgrimages, they are our practical help of the needy human beings who are praying to God for help. Religions may preach prayers as a holy duty and demand your absolute and unquestioning obedience. Contrary to God and humanity needing your physical and action based good deeds. If you are good because of fear or greed, that means you believe in carrot and stick philosophy, and to me that is degrading for a human individual who comes with their personally installed spiritual side from before birth. Personally I believe there are three things wrong with carrot and stick philosophy. Logically and interestingly you will have to die first to find out about your consequential results. Second being good is always done for others and usually out of fear or greed so there is no personal responsibility or sense of duty involved. Meaning there is no guaranty that everyone will follow and adhere to the prescribed rules. Third we are not created like simple animals who need carrot and stick philosophy to be trained. We are human beings with our personal atom of autonomy sort of like mini Gods. We all come with our atom of autonomy related spiritual jewelry so to me standing us all in the line up of other genetically programed animals is degrading for human beings. Being treated as an inferior form of life by a group of people who tell you that you are irrelevant and even are a born sinner simply can’t be based on truth so its a political agenda related to controlling society. How do you take your politics of belonging to the group you are born in? Its your prerogative but I personally feel offended by being treated as a simple physical creature not as a spiritual entity like a human being .

Now the personal question to you is that, do you see yourself as a shapely conformed being according to the demands of your belonging society or do you look at yourself as a PERSON IN CHARGE OF YOUR MORTAL LIFE. A CEO who know what a human being is or should be or what it means to be a human being? An independent entity who carries a personal God particle or atom of autonomy within. If so how are you feeling living among the people who think you are completely an irrelevant individual when it comes to our holy picture of spirituality. God and Devil have been and are still our dominating realities of the world we live in. Politically removing or I should say stripping human individual’s relevance has its price to pay, if society keeps its individuals down by making them believe that they are irrelevant. Individual loses personal self respect which is related to self-esteem. An individual with no self respect and self-esteem becomes dependent and loses personal responsibilities and placing in the spiritual picture. Without individual’s personal sense of responsibility its hard for a society to flourish. Crime rates and other personal responsibility related morals and ethics would be compromised regardless of strict punishments. Logically no governing system can higher a cop for each individual things eventually would land on the individual’s shoulders. So if you discourage personal importance and relevance you are looking for social chaos because human is an entity in a class of its own . Religions have enjoyed their hay days but things have been changing and people are questioning everything so if you don’t have clear answers or solutions for their problems they will seek where they can find the answers. Remember God and Devil are our metaphoric realities not a physical reality like living breathing human being, so not everyone agrees about their importance or human irrelevance. Its essential to know there has been and still is an undeniable need and a place for our metaphoric realities but never should be above and over our physical realities, so no killings in the name of metaphoric realities.

I personally hate putting people in categories because I strongly believe in our evolutionary nature, individualism and individual being the foundation of community and even God. Simply look at it this way. If you hypothetically ask a human cell, what is God? It will tell you obviously its the human body. Which provides oxygenated and nutrient rich blood to keep the cells alive, functioning and meaningful. Since the survival of the cell is literally dependent on the living, breathing and functioning body, it believes it can’t survive without the help of body. That is if you don’t know that body’s origination and the very survival also depends on the cells well being as well. Life gets complicated and leaves room for political influences to rob individuals of their importance. Sure this is a give and take or you can call a relationship built on simple reciprocation. Now stay at the same metaphor and consider yourself as a cell of God to make sense out of your life.You will find things would make a lot of sense, even if it is just a metaphor. If you ask me what is God I can say I don’t know because I don’t really know. I don’t like to use assumptions but in this case I am using this metaphor simply to make my point. Apparently there is a whole lot of knowledge about God but to me mostly its tainted and influenced by the politics of sense of belonging. I admit that I don’t know because I believe I am in the process of evolution so there is a room for me to learn more. Unfortunately there are a whole lot of my fellow human beings who really and blindly believe they know everything about God, Devil, heaven and hell. Everything is figured out for these people so no one needs to question or learn any further. Most of the time things seem real to us because we are forced to respect our authority so regardless of its authenticity we accept our ancestral knowledge mostly out of loyalties to our belonging groups. Question myself has been helping me to look at our holy picture critically so I believe if there is a spiritual injustice that holy picture is not holy anymore.

Nothing scientific but my logic says, if I don’t even own my own breath why am I so certain that I am doing everything? My claim to know every thing is not standing on the solid grounds because if I did it all I did it with the help of that very breath I have absolutely no control over. Does that mean what a human being is doing, has a helping hand behind whether its good or bad?. That would simply mean God is in compliance with whatever happens in humanity. Try to digest this for a moment and then look at yourself if you are irrelevant. If God was pulling our strings we would be genetically programed, we would do and would not be able to do certain things. As human beings there are no such boundaries for us so if everything is decided by us, shouldn’t we learn to take on more personal responsibilities of our actions? A belief in God or not is not a measuring stick. Proof is in the pudding these days everything has been changing around us, we know how to track a storm heck we even give names to our storms. We are deep into knowledge of artificial insemination, test tubes, stem cells, and going to space even for pleasure. Yet we still know everything about God and Devil, nothing personal but there is a balance we can create between our realities to function physically and spiritually. If my breath is not mine and my whole life is on a borrowed time. How I spend it, its my prerogative but by having to function as a dependent and being irrelevant is not my nature so I would do the justice to myself by believing in my relevance, importance take responsibility for my personal actions. I would rather believe and return the favor to God by reciprocation for my oxygen and the gift of functioning body. If this give and take is the game of spirituality, I should play with honesty, pull my load and take my responsibilities according to the time and era I am born into.

Sure we have been conformed by the politics of our belonging groups and we are trained to follow the traditions, customs, rituals and rules of our belonging groups. But evolution of time is helping us to think beyond the boundaries of our groups as well. Regardless of our political conformation interestingly most of us desire to live in a rather peaceful society. Since politics has been involved in every step of our growing up our evolution and social conformation is never purely spiritual. Politics has been used as a tool by our belonging groups to the point that even individually we believe it is normal to be politically prejudiced and discriminatory. Regardless of the level of our evolution, unfortunately even today we aren’t able to see the damages of the politics of belonging. Individually we have been brain washed to the point that we are blind of our responsibilities of being a human being. Our loyalties make us unable to see the political taint even in our personal spirituality. We can’t use our personal sense of justice and become prejudiced and discriminatory individuals. We don’t even acknowledge that as a human individual we all have our personal responsibilities to do the justice so we don’t do to others what we don’t like done to us or to our loved ones.

Being a physical creature who is genetically influenced by insecurities and wrapped up with political influences, we are fearful and feel insecure. We fear loneliness and our societies use that as a tool for conformation. That is the biggest influence and most powerful motivator for us human beings to conform and learn to compromise. Regardless of our personal traits we learn to see merits in living within our group environment. We have created a world where individual has given their personal powers to the belonging groups. Until recently we have been following our traditions, customs, rituals and rules of our belonging groups whether they made sense or not but today we are able to live in our melting pot societies. Especially in today’s time as evolved human beings we are a lot more inclined to give and take equal human individual rights to each other so the racism, prejudice and discrimination is looked down as a human flaw. There has been a big shift in attitude of humanity but still there is a long way to go to see its merits for humanity. Even though conservative populations are still pulling us back in time but at least there is a struggle or tug of war now unlike before. Remember religious people have burned witches, even killed innocent kids in the name of conformation. We should take comfort in knowing and understanding that we have evolved to this level because of those constant inner individual battles.

From killing each other to learning about the need of loving each other did not come that easy, if you look at our history there has been a whole lot of pitfalls. Sure we still kill each other but to a degree humanity is coming around to accept the concept of one humanity. Our current issues like the popularity of equal human individual rights, infectious diseases like Corona virus, global warming related extreme weather and internet related new crime rate. They all are pointing towards the needs of present day humanity which has to conform to the demands of time. Unfortunately humanity has been divided in so many ways in order to succeed we all individually have to confront our deep and personal insecurities, deal with our nature and evolve spiritually to understand our influences.

I am not going to rely on the powerful nature of shapes because I personally believe in our evolutionary nature. As an individual we all have our potential within to grow with our knowledge. If you find yourself being molded in any one particular shape, you have to understand one thing and that is that you are not genetically locked into your shape and related boundaries. You personally may create those boundaries out of your individual insecurities or you may have been conformed dew to your brain washing in your tender years. Remember its an undeniable fact that human beings have been evolving. You simply have to look around and back in the history to see what has been and is going on, we did not grow horns or wings but we sure are evolving every day. If you see yourself conformed into certain shape and category or you behave and believe that you are an extension of your belonging group. You may need to individually step up, pan out and evolve to the next level to find your placing in today’s world.

Before we go any further, my first message to you is, don’t let your insecurities and politics of belonging to personally bankrupt you spiritually. Remember your mortal nature and understand it this way. If a flower blooms and dies, does not mean you should see its short life as a doom and gloom for its temporary beauty. Beauty is beauty regardless of its mortality so be beautiful while you have a chance. Flower’s bloom and demise is highly perceptive to us human beings. If you see and remember to appreciate its bloomed beauty, you can see the spiritual picture otherwise personal life can be a drag. Flower’s nature is clearly teaching us about ourselves. If you can’t or don’t want to enjoy your beauty, its wrong on all fronts. Remember you have been blessed with a free will so spiritually you can’t blame your creator. If your desire to control your uncontrollable is robbing your happiness its under your free will to choose.

Keep your personal sense of justice and responsibilities of reciprocation in front at all time yet as your priorities especially if you want a successful mortal life. Whether you believe in hell and heaven or not, if you can achieve a level of comfort from within your mortal skin, you have nothing to worry about. Whether its during or after the physical life, things are going to be fine for you. Especially if you have spent your life reciprocating honestly whether its between you and God, between you and your loved ones or even in general with everyone else. If reciprocation is done as a personal responsibility without the fear of hell or greed of heaven. That would insure your peace of mind from within. Especially during your living years and it does it by removing the fears and greed of after life. Remember your atom of autonomy is sitting right within you to help in navigating through life honestly. You simply have to acknowledge, value and nurture your spiritual side to meet this personal source of individual goodness. Since we have not come out of the spells of our politics of belonging, nor we have individually taken the responsibilities of a CEO of our lives. That would take some more time for us to evolve so its an on going process. We are still struggling with our personal relevance and self-esteem issues. Remember its all created by our politically cunning policies of our corrupt religious authorities. Simply because we have been trained to be controlled so to me its a deliberate political attempt to keep us all individually insecure not only in our living years but even for after life as well. Does that mean I don’t agree with life after death? No not at all, I believe that whole area is in our continuous and on going evolution so I avoid making assumptions so I would find out when I get there. Our not knowing is not a problem its a fact so denying that human fact is political and nothing but. Reality is we are not living in the bush and caves, nor we are living in mud huts, all our progress shows that our knowledge is constantly evolving and we are going places. I personally believe its not all doom and gloom so fear and greed based carrot and stick philosophy is not needed for any human individual.

If you start to give name to God and Devil, you automatically believe all good comes from God and all the bad belong to Devil. Now lets look at this picture with a little common sense human logic. How does that good and bad takes a physical form or actually happens? If you are unable to see all the good and bad is performed physically with the help of a human individual, you personally need some spiritual awakening to do. To me human individual is the main character of this holy picture yet has lost the status because of the politics of belonging to our groups. God and Devil would not mean anything to anyone if there is no human being to physically perform for them. If you personally believe God and Devil are responsible for everything where do you fit yourself and especially your free will. If you still think they should be on the top corners as your religions make you believe, you have the rights to believe in that but you simply have to give the same rights to others opposing you as well. Since human individual makes things happen physically, to me human should be on the top corner of this holy triangle and should be respected as a third equation.Today’s humanity has realized this and human being has become a physical reality. So you can’t simply put a physical reality below your metaphoric realities like God and Devil. If your religion is preaching you that human being is irrelevant, unimportant and is even a born sinner. If you believe in it and lose your personal respect and self-esteem just look at your make up and abilities. Its your own fault because you know you have been blessed with your free will directly from God. So remember nothing good or bad happens other than natural accidents without the helping hands of human beings. For physical help, human being at the least stands in this triangle as an equal partner or as a third equation, never mind being irrelevant. I can imagine how God and Devil would do things and for who, if human beings are not around. Spirituality simply becomes impotent without human beings so our holy picture only makes sense if human is present, physically contributing and is respected accordingly.

I started this blog project with a title of who flipped my triangle for this reason and have been trying to explain it all in simple words. Interestingly this does not stop at our first and original politically flipped triangle. Second politically flipped triangle is related with our individual life as well. Where you are the CEO and are on the top corner so your sense of belonging and sense of freedom should be on the bottom. Unfortunately this has been politically flipped as well. Visualize this triangle, the right side up triangle is when a CEO is on the top corner.

Sense of belonging Sense of freedom

CEO

Sense of belonging Sense of freedom

Being a human comes with some personal and serious responsibilities, we all individually need to look at ourselves as a responsible adult who has been taught to believe in everything what a belonging group says so. Spiritually a human individual is an ocean in a drop so our responsibilities are far beyond the boundaries of belonging to groups. As a human individual we all and I mean every single one of us has the ability to use free will. As long as you are healthy and functioning that free will makes you an entity in a class of its own. You don’t have to be a worker bee or a warrior ant because they don’t have a choice but you do. All because you were born as a human being. If politics of belonging has you influenced and molded you, you live and die like a genetically programed entity. Sure it still is your choice because you own your free will. Your free will makes you not only responsible for your actions it actually makes you a CEO of your life. Your place in this triangle is on the top corner. If you feel otherwise its because you have not assumed your responsibilities as a CEO. If your sense of belonging or freedom is calling the shots, you have a politically flipped triangle. Meaning you are not in control of your life, your belonging groups are. Personally if you really think that we all should be acting on behalf of our groups. What does it make you, a worker bee, a warrior ant or a human being who suppose to have free will, personal sense of justice, ability to be compassionate and loving. Never mind all that, not be responsible for our personal actions?.

Being in control of our life makes us all feel good and anything what makes us feel good can have addicting properties. Having those controlling addictions with a mortal nature can personally put us in constantly nagging inner conflicts. Living with our inner conflicts have the potential to robs us a lot more than our personal comfort and happiness. These days its being discovered that our stress levels are scientifically connected to several physical, mental, emotional and spiritual disorders or ills. Since our mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health is at steak, we need to individually look at our personal life critically. For instance if you don’t accept your mortality yet deep inside you know it is a fact of life. That means your style of thinking makes you the cause and solution simultaneously so be aware. Sooner you accept this undeniable reality the better because you want to accumulate more not sacrifice your happiness during your temporary visit.

Our reality is that we come alone and go alone, other than our assumptions we don’t really know where we have come from and where we are going? So if we remember the time in between is our personal and individual time. We can make a better use of it by choosing to become a CEO of our life. Otherwise we may live and die in vain and would not even know it. We can have our emotional attachments for our families, communities, nations and religions but non of them can stop us from departing. No other human individual nor a group of people can stop or help in avoiding your mortal nature, so how you spend your time is simply your prerogative. But if you are being used politically or in any other ways remember you are the one who has the free will. Whether you let yourself be used or not its your call. Your controlling addictions can be over whelming but its you who has the ability to see them as your addictions. If your love and desire to control is worth the sacrifice, it still is your choice. Our understanding changes as we age, we learn and evolve individually and even collectively. If you can understand all that you can keep your politics of belonging related addictions in check to live a universally healthy mortal life. Otherwise internally you may go against the will of your atom of autonomy and end up causing yourself sickness of all kind, yet from within.

You may seek help from all kind of professionals and gurus or go to all kind of fortune tellers, horoscope experts or psychics but the real boss is sitting right within you. Your atom of autonomy can tell you your real story. Personally what I got from my atom of autonomy is, that keep it simple and keep your mortal nature in front of you at all time so your decisions would be spiritually influenced. Understand you don’t have control even on your next breath yet you individually have been blessed with the free will. It is not there only to make decisions but to make you see the hidden politics of belonging to our security related addictions as well. Every tradition, custom, ritual and rule of your belonging group drips and speaks politics and nothing but. Personal knowing can teach us all that we have not only brought along our free will but we have personal ability to use our compassion, love and even personal sense of justice. If you are spiritually aware you would automatically know that you should not do to others what you don’t like done to you or to your loved ones. Now the question is if you are living a spiritually aware life, should you be worried about not getting in heaven or be fearful of being put in the eternal hell? To me if you are reciprocating honestly in living years you should be not only comfortable in mortal skin you should be able to see yourself as a beautiful life. If not you should be looking for the reasons of those dark and fearful feelings. As human beings we all can live without the fear of death or hell and we can live without the greed of heaven as well especially if we make a habit of living honestly. Contrary to the popular beliefs our practical prayers are our reciprocation not praying in the mosque or church. Helping practically is the game of life so are you paying metaphorically or physically? Since you are the one who is converting spirituality into physical actions it is you who needs to be praying practically because you have to remember even God needs your physicality to be God for the people who are praying and asking for help.

I believe spiritual reciprocation is the purpose of our lives, we may not be genetically programed but we are spiritually programed to feel guilt if we receive yet not give meaning responsibility of reciprocation is ingrained within us. Since we convert spirituality into physical actions, good things don’t happen on their own or without the helping hands of physically living human beings. Its not about following all the traditions, customs, rituals and rules of our religions rather its our personal responsibility to convert spiritual thoughts into physical actions. Always remember who is doing that? Whether its a religion, a group of people or even God without the human individual they all lose their importance and relevance. Reciprocation is not going to mosque or church but rather its all about praying practically, converting spiritual thoughts into physical actions as a duty. Unfortunately we have been taught everything but being an equal partner in the creation of everything physical so if there is not a physical action there is noting but empty sheet of silence. Even God and Devil in that state don’t mean anything because there is no one to benefit or get harmed. If you can understand real picture of reciprocation it would spills over into your everyday and personal relationships as well to benefit you spiritually.

If we have been taught that politics of belonging is the foundation of our belief systems, we automatically would believe in take, take and take for our groups. All our wars have not been fought for God but rather for groups. We consider ourselves as smart especially when we get things for nothing, so the whole system of using people and even God has been and still is a common thing in humanity. Imagine if we all honestly reciprocated directly with God there would not be a need of religious beliefs. Simply because everyone would instinctively know spirituality better than any political religion can teach. If I enjoy the bounties of life God has blessed me with and am able to reciprocate, to me its life well spent. Whether you believe in God or not I am not going to preach you some religious beliefs or a manifesto to live by. But I would say that I personally would rather believe in God because to me life even at the lowest level is so sophisticated that it blows my mind. Now how one believes in God and where God is placed in their life is a personal issue so I personally feel being a part of bigger picture sort of like a human cell to the body. Supply line of oxygen, and a functioning body which is as complex as anything can get, simply can’t be a fluke. As long as I see myself as relevant, important and with a real purpose in my creation I would carry on my duties of reciprocation whether I am inside of the boundaries of the religion I was born in, or out side of them. Would I go to heaven or hell after I die? That I am going to leave it to worry about after I die, should you believe the way I do? Its not my place to say because you got your own life to live, and you are the CEO of your personal life.

To me behind human physicality there is a wisdom of creator and that is to get things done physically. Now where do you personally put God in your life? Is your prerogative but if you don’t reciprocate or don’t give back while you receive simply and spiritually its wrong. Sure natural and physical world has been and still is a dog eat dog world, but as a spiritually aware entity we are in a class of of our own. We simply don’t fit in that category of other animals so dog eat dog or carrot and stick philosophies are below us. We are responsible of our evolutionary duty to make and run things spiritually. As a spiritually aware being if we don’t reciprocate we feel guilt and internally face our atom of autonomy which can dictate our spiritual health. For instance our deep happiness and satisfaction resides in helping others, that is why I believe we are spiritually programed. Which clearly means we are a lot more than just another genetically programed entity so for sure there is a lot more to us than we are taught to believe. Internally we all have our personal, individual, spiritual and physical jigsaw puzzle of God and human being. If you ignore your facts, your life is not lived in balance or as a human individual. You will still live and die like all living creatures but remember you are the CEO of your life and you are responsible for what happens in your personal and inner universe while you are alive. You may ignore spiritual side of you and live exclusively as a physical entity but there are certain departments of life you simply can’t fulfill.

I would suggest everyone to personally ask yourself these questions, especially in dead of the night when its quite around and you are able to meet yourself. Its exclusively between you and you, one on one to have an honest conversation. Ask yourself if you really believe in God and why? If you believe, where does God fit in your everyday life?

Do you see yourself as an independent entity and where do you see yourself in the holy picture of spirituality? Do you know about the phenomenal powers of sense of belonging? Where does the politics of belonging fits in your personal life? Are you honest enough with yourself to the point that you acknowledge and know that your truths are not politically tainted?

Regardless of your religion, can you openly and honestly discuss your beliefs with someone other than you, one on one without getting emotionally upset or going in and out of your religiously established boundaries?

Can you question your religious traditions, customs, rituals and rules, especially if they don’t make any sense in today’s world? Especially think about throwing virgins over the cliffs to please God because you were told by the leaders that God is mad at us, that is why we have bad weather.

How about your opinion for making money because it can be legal, illegal, non kosher, unethical or non spiritual? Remember religious societies don’t necessarily do well on the scale of individual morality and spiritual crime rate. At the least there is no guarantee to have lower crime rate or even individual satisfaction, happiness and contentment otherwise there would be mark differences in societies with or without religious beliefs.

Do you think our heavily demanding and deeply curvy religious old rail tracks should be straighten out to accommodate today’s speeding bullet trains of evolution? Or slow our trains down to match the speed with our old rail tracks of religions? If a mullah or a priest commits a social or spiritual crime they are personally responsible for that because it is a personal thing but if a religion itself commits spiritual crimes in the name of conformation, should they be punished and by whom? Recently there have been a news of mass graves discovery of native children and it was done by the residential schools, so should that be called as an individuals committing crimes or a whole religion and why? United Nation is our top dog but it does not have teeth so who should be contacted? When nations and religions commit crimes against each other. How can we live with all our past and ancestral disputes without resolutions?

Do you go out of your way to fit in, impress or you would have the desire to die trying to be admired by your belonging group and even in the process you harm others or even yourself? Do you take everything at its face value if its given to you as rules or you critique and question everything? Do you believe in extreme and are willing to kill over your nationalism, religious beliefs or God and why? What do you think a human being is and should be?

If you have questions but feel its not appropriate to ask because you may upset your community and even believe that the authority should not be questioned? As a social creature, do you believe upsetting belonging groups can be a self imposed punishment? Do you think differences of opinion is natural for a social creature like us? If potentially society loses political control, should we force people to keep them from becoming educated, having or forming an opinion, recent example of people trying to escape from Afghanistan comes to mind. Personal opinions about God, religion or politics of sense of belonging can be troublesome because we humans have been killing each other over it for unknown time and death tole. Yet we never even have had complete knowledge of anything, and interestingly we are still evolving and still keep killing each other in the name of our nations and religions. Things would have been different if we would have done this kind of open question and answer in our personal and honest discussion. We all should have done that in our distant past, recent past or even now at the least we should try to have an honest discussion within us individually. If we are honest enough to accept that our knowledge has never been, is or will ever be complete then why all that extreme? Now that questioning raises an other question and that is, when would we stop killing each other over our incomplete knowledge? If we start the personal and individual process of question and answer, remove appropriation and have an open discussions as if we have incomplete knowledge. We have a chance to take the next step into new paradigm otherwise status quo can carry on and with our modern day weaponry things can get ugly. We all should seek the answers fitting for humanity as a whole, not as groups. We need that little kick to take that next step and accept equal human individual rights all around the world. That can help us all to evolve to the next level humanity desperately needs. So we can deal with our current issues demanding our collective responses as one humanity. Infectious diseases like Corona virus, Global warming related extreme weather, Internet crimes are the modern things we can’t built walls against nor we can solve them as a singular nation.

If you live with your emotions like anger, jealousy, hate, envy and disappointments, they may or may not hurt anyone else but for sure you would end up going against your personal atom of autonomy. Personal and inner conflicts can start a process of your individual destruction, interestingly from within and yet by choice. I have been writing about the politics of sense of belonging and sense of freedom for a while now because I believe there is a personal and internal disconnect which can cause or even eradicate a whole lot of our individual and collective problems. These opposing senses are within all of us but its you who has been assigned with the duties of a CEO. Who has the free will to create personal balance between them all opposing senses. If your senses are extreme and out of your control that personal inability to manage may be destructive for you individually. Since you have a mortal nature, your spiritual tranquility and personal satisfaction are your assets. If they are robbed by your personal behaviors, you simply can not afford to do that. If your sense of belonging is out of your control and makes you spiritually bankrupt you would have to dig for the reasons so you can heal yourself from your internal chaos. Remember you have gone through a lot of conformation related brain washing as a child, adolescent or even as an adult. All you have to do is to simply look at your ego, pride and honor and try breaking them down to see where do they come from? You will end up finding their mother, and yes that is an out of control sense of belonging to your group. If you carry them within you, you must know, what they are, where did they come from and what are they doing to you? Personally I believe they all are double edge swords, they simply are related to our education and individually they cut us both way, depending on how powerful your politics of belonging is. If you are always thinking, what other people would think about you and you seize to live or shrink your potential to comply with the demands of society. Your atom of autonomy within knows exactly what is going on so going against it can be destructive for you personally. Remember it has the power to rob you of your personal peace, happiness and contentment so as a mortal being its not a good idea to mess with or go to war against something sitting right within you. Since by nature you already have the ability to use your equally strong sense of freedom, you can help yourself and at the least create balance within. If you are not even exposed to your sense of freedom, you got a big internal and personal problem. Not only you become a slave to your belonging group’s whims, you simply lose yourself as being a human being as well. We are suppose to be very sophisticated, genetically evolved and an independent entity unlike worker bees or warrior ants. With the politics of belonging your belonging groups can make your atom of autonomy inactive and even impotent, which makes you spiritually shrivel down and stand in the line up of genetically programed creatures.

If in any way you are hurting from within, at the least you can do for yourself is to be a friend who stands in your corner. If you know that your ego, pride, honor, anger, jealousy, envy and disappointments are hurting you. You should know all the inns and outs about them to understand the cause of your problem. Never forget that you got a temporary and limited life time. If they are hurting you, potentially they can put your whole mortal life in jeopardy. What can you do about it? First of all you have to acknowledge that you have a problem. If your sense of belonging is making you hurt others, acknowledge that that hurting others is hurting you personally in more ways than one. Robbing you, of your not only potential but sucking the spiritual life out of your living years as well. Its time for you to know why do you even have your own and exclusive atom of autonomy? Your ability to use your free will, personal sense of justice, compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love is all coming from your exclusive atom of autonomy. Ask yourself, are you worthy of even having your personal atom of autonomy? Are you spiritually evolved enough to be an independent human being? If you are, why are you acting like a genetically program entity like ants and bees?

Know yourself so you can learn to deal with your what ifs related fears, instead of spending your whole mortal life wondering and worrying what is going to happen to me when I die? Know what its all about why our religions say to fear hell and greed for heaven? Answer is to live this life as a good human being so the purpose of that philosophy is to live as a good person. If you start to commit spiritual crimes in the name of your religion, regardless of what your belonging groups say you would be in living hell because of your personal atom of autonomy. Instead if you know how important it is for you to perform physically to convert spirituality into physical actions. That would open the spiritual doors you are waiting and wondering about. A mini God who converts spiritual things into physical actions, is what and who you are? Purpose of your life is that beauty of the flower simply playing physical God as if God is having a physical experience through you. Godly beauty shine through your living action. These are the most important facts and they can make or break your ability to be happy even as a mortal. Especially if you are a mortal being you need to have a clear understanding about your personal what ifs related worries. If you focus on the understanding of your mortal beauty regardless of its duration. Your creator’s wisdom behind your physicality is your reciprocation. All your God like abilities are there for you to be neutral and independent so you can create wisdom of balance.

Strength of the politics of belonging is stronger than one individual because of the political preaching. Sure odds are against you but you still have to choose and perform spiritually because you hold the atom of autonomy within. One may ask why would God create human beings with God like abilities? Regardless of all the conformation why do we all have free will? Since no one can think for God and know all the wisdom and mysteries of life, being a human being we individually and even collectively start to assume. Remember in our distance past we were throwing virgins over the cliffs because our religious leaders ask for human sacrifice to please God. Even bad weather was considered as God wanted sacrifice. I was shocked when I Google to look for human sacrifice. There were twenty five non connected human communities were performing human sacrifice. I feel for all those poor virgins because today we know bad weather ahead of time above all we know God is not mad at us and those religious leaders duped us and unfortunately they are still able to pull our strings to the point that we are willing to kill and get killed over it. If we assume the purpose of our physical life is to perform and convert spirituality into physical actions, that would be our reciprocation in return for oxygen and a functioning body. So if we are in balance we should be comfortable in our mortal skins. Unfortunately that is not the case because politics of our belonging is too powerful and it makes us rob each other not only life but our love as well. If your love is robbed by your opposing group you would love to perform for your belonging group because you want to inflict the same pain to others who caused you such pain. Opposing groups have been and are still in the business of robbing love of each other, so our conflicts stay alive not because of group politics but because of the desire to take revenge for the pain of love loss. Your groups would rather have you believe that your love loss was God’s and Devil’s work so you can stick with them for security. Political groups would not hesitate to use you, God and Devil all at the same time. REMEMBER ITS POLITICS ONE -O-ONE.****************************

Even if you mean well, as human being you simply can’t assume when it comes to pure spirituality and God. Spirituality, justice and God all go hand in hand, nothing but the truth. Unfortunately they all fall into our metaphoric realities just like love and compassion so they are and should be below our physical realities meaning you simply can’t rob someone of love in the name of even God. If you rob someone of their physical reality over your metaphoric reality it is a human degradation because we are acting as if we have no spiritual awareness. If you assume that you should defend God and kill the deniers, you are robbing a physical reality over a metaphoric one. Even if you are sure you are doing it for God with good intentions, remember God and spirituality is not involved in your actions. In actuality you are chopping God’s physically working hands. Your politically taught assumptions are not pure like God and spirituality and yes even if they are coming from your religious preaching. They are tainted by the politics of belonging to a group of people. If you start to dig into your motives dig deeper and all the way so you can find the cause of your assumptions.

Look at God of all groups, logically the idea of having a belief in God is same, so God is the same universal entity. Just like love, compassion, justice among other metaphoric human realities. They don’t have any language of exclusivity but unfortunately politics of belonging does. So they insist on superiority of the group and God on their side as if God is a prejudicial and discriminatory entity. Spiritually if you start to look in that direction we as belonging individuals are responsible for feeding into it because not only we individually become prejudiced and discriminatory we believe God is as well. Believing that means we are not only getting used politically we are using God as well. Now the personal question to you is that do you think you and God are prejudice and discriminatory entities? Our belonging groups have given not only a bad name to God they have become politically cunning animals and their actions are nothing more than political. If you yourself can’t understand your realities and their placings simply imagine putting yourself on the receiving end of your actions before committing them. Remember the dog eat dog world is for animals, as human beings we carry our atom of autonomy within. Which makes us a spiritual entity with a physical twist. Meaning you are not exclusively physical nor you are spiritual. Having both sides automatically should make you responsible for creating balance. If our hormones rise and fall with belonging sport teams scoring, we are deeply connected with our belonging groups as well. Our hormones are one of the reason why we always have defended our groups regardless of right and wrong. We can go against not only opposing groups, we can go against ourselves and even our belonging individuals to our own groups as well because of politics just look at American population how they are believing Americans are not Americans.

We are taught our belonging groups are the safest bet for us individually and we have no choice. So we take abuse from our belonging groups and carry on following them. Interestingly humanity has been changing with education level of the individual, especially these changes have accelerated and picking up even more speed as internet makes advances. Everything is out in the open, a wrong doing and coverups are not easy anymore. With other advances people are even digging out old secrets like mass graves of native children. A horrific example of religious and political wrong doing. I believe we have to go after the dead dog or the cause of the problems by understanding why? Why our hormones fluctuate even from a simple sport match and why can’t appreciate a good score by our opposing team.

Before I write any further I have to simply say remember we are not like other animals otherwise they would have their mega cities, advanced cars, plans and cell phones as well. We are human beings with our personal and individual atom of autonomy, which not only gives us free will, it gives us personal and individual sense of justice, compassion, sense of freedom and individuality. So remember before we commit spiritual crimes for our belonging groups we personally are responsible for our actions. Those poor kids were 100% innocents so if killing any innocent being is a spiritual crime. How can it be done in the name of God and spirituality, that has been a total politics and nothing but. Human individual killings have been going on from before history can be connected and our politics of belonging to our groups has been around before our religious beliefs so our religious beliefs are not as pure as they are presented to us. They simply could not stay A political as they should be so instead of being spiritual knowledge they became political parties, robing spirituality out of our belief systems.

Since spirituality based compassion, generosity, bravery, sacrifice and love can’t take physical form or become a physical reality without our physicality. We all need to act responsibly before acting in the name of political belonging. Acting under the influences of our hormones is not a matter of pride for a creature like human being so ask this question to yourself personally before taking part in a mob attack. Killing someone who looks or believes different or born into opposing group but have not hurt you personally. What would you call them? I personally call them innocent of any crime other than being born into their belonging group, nation or religion. Easiest way to know about your wrong actions is to put yourself on the receiving end of it.

God put our personal and exclusive atom of autonomy in each and everyone of us indiscriminately, so why some can think and most can’t beyond the hormonal influences. If you are one of those who love their sport team, check if you love your race, gender, nation and religious beliefs and finally check if you would be willing to commit spiritual crime for them. Now if you find all of that within you, check at what level of the ladder of civilization and evolution you stand. If you are confused that is actually a healthy thing for you. If you are absolutely sure and are under the influences of your hormones, its time for you catch up and evolve according to the era you are born in. This gap is not going to hurt others as much but it can have some serious consequences for you. Today we are connecting mental health issues to our wars. Soldiers are facing several kind of mental health issues because their personal and exclusive atom of autonomy did not agree with their actions. Power of atom of autonomy is an undeniable fact of human beings. Our guilt is a clear example of it so there is a powerful spiritual entity living within us which has the power to rip us apart.

As an individual we all want justice because any stronger entity whether as an individual or as a group of people they push their weight around. As weaker beings people would like to survive so they comply using politics of survival. While a gang pushes people around, justice is sought from the governing authorities. If a nation pushes weaker nation we go to United Nation. Now the question is where to go if Godly preaching people start to push people around and force them to commit spiritual crimes? I believe United Nation should have some teeth of justice against all violators regardless of political affiliations, religions or powerful nations. Its all about the desire of justice and peace but unfortunately we are still in the process of evolution.

Some of us believe in personal responsibility yet most of us give that responsibility to our belonging groups and as groups we are stuck into the politics of our sense of belonging which preaches nothing more than prejudice and discrimination against other human beings. That superiority related politics has not worked for us regardless of thousands of years of evolution. It is getting worse with our modern day weaponry, so its time we all need to develop our own and personal sense of justice. We don’t really have to go anywhere to learn about it, our atom of autonomy is sitting right within us individually to teach us all that with an easy spiritual step. Don’t do to others what you don’t like done to you or to your loved ones. If we all develop our personal sense of justice at individual level we all can overcome politics of sense of belonging related spiritual crimes. Just like a gang can’t fight a nation, a nation can’t or should not be able to fight the world or a competent United Nation. So its a political problem that at the highest of level of powers humanity not only has a weak or impotent United Nation, as individuals we are weak as well because we don’t speak against wrong doing especially by our own nations and religions. When United Nation can stand against strong nations religious extreme and organizations then and only then it would be respected and be able to call itself as a justice department of the world. As I said the desire to have justice is in everyone of us but when it comes to politics of belonging and survival that would always trump the personal sense of justice and spirituality. If every single one of us develops personal sense of justice and spiritual strength no belonging group or even groups can enforce injustice period, because their physicality depends on the human individual’s physical contributions and if that source rejects politics there is no power for the groups, nations, religions and even God.

Interestingly if you start to question, What you are? Who you are and why you constantly want to know more? Then you would be able to change not only yourself but your belonging groups as well. You would keep evolving and learning all about your personal life in your living years. Otherwise things would stay the way it has been and remember we can’t stay still and keep living in the world we have been living because now our problems are different. Today we have problems like global warming, internet related crimes, our new weapons of mass destruction and to say the least our infectious diseases like Coronavirus.

As human beings we are an evolving entity so anyone can transform themselves within one life time and evolve to something even unexpected. One can be in a thick shell as a child but break everything, or rip all the cocoons around by the lessons of personal struggles, so for us there are no caps or freezing on our potential. Anyway when I look at the shapes three of them stand out to use as example of human individuals. People fit themselves into triangle, circle or square. Obviously they are metaphoric types and metaphoric things may not be physical but they are human realities. Even if you can not see them physically but you sure can feel them deep into your soul just like God and love. Here are three shapes of people, Triangle, Circle and Square.

Triangle people, thorny, questioning, eager to learn beyond the so called created human boundaries and don’t fit into the norms of circles or squares people. Still interestingly in balance from within to know the importance of happiness and contentment while living in a mortal body. Clearly understanding personal mortality. Still logical about how much say they have in their personal day today life. They acknowledging their dependency on oxygen and a functioning body to experience life. They respect that direct external help and know that their belonging groups or other people can’t be helpful and yes even they know religions can not provide them any real security from being mortal. Since oxygen and functioning bodies are our personal issues and they are completely out of the control of any human individual or a group of people. So they don’t respect authority figures especially if they are wrong and are out of lines of spiritual truths. Believing in and knowing mortality can easily teach one to know about unnecessary, non sense and out dated rules. As a CEO of life always balancing, saying and seeing things as they are. Especially when it comes to personal responsibilities they come naturally to them, they know what needs to be done for others and self at the same time. Balancing the triangle of love helps them to put everyone in life in their place is not easy for us human beings but triangle people can create that balance. Balance is essential between our passionate, instinctive and universal love, so they are able to create peace within the family situations and know where the society fits into their lives not where they fit in the society. They know how to balance personal sense of belonging to our groups and know the value of personal sense of freedom to be comfortable within their mortal skin. They are aware of their CEO status and the boss sitting right within them so they respect their atom of autonomy to create a harmonious mortal life. They have good idea to create a melodious music out of their life and would know instinctively when to speak and when to stay quite. They know God’s importance but they know themselves and their personal responsibilities even better. Too short for my liking but can’t spend too much time to explain shapes because we are an evolving entity so people can change as they evolve so these shapes are not standing on solid grounds regardless of clearly seen in peoples behaviors.

Circle people.

You can go for 9 to 5 job, set limits to fit in, compromise and keep on going just like circle without any edges, easy going. You may not live with the logic and importance of balancing life as a mortal being. Believing in mortality and living continuously don’t really match physically so we all have to take care of our affairs as a mortal regardless of what shape we fit in. You will look at and believe life is a continuous circle of life so you would tend to believe in whatever your ancestors have taught you. Your logic of being good is to comply with the belonging groups logic and you believe people should be good because of the fear of hell or because of the greed of heaven all because you believe life is a circle. Unlike triangle individual who believes in being good is a personal duty from within not because of fear or greed. Being a circle you would have clearly defined boundaries and you would like to believe that being in those boundaries makes you a good person. You would personally feel secure and comfortable in clearly defined boundaries. You would even worry to secure yourself for after life as well. Interestingly by God our nature is to evolve so blindly following ancestral truths and staying within the boundaries is limiting for us all. Remember as a human individual even our potential is in evolutionary process we simply can’t fit into circle. There is good chance that you may spend your whole life living in compliance, yet by choice. Molding with circumstances is one thing but not trying to create balance in personal life is another. Smoothing your edges so you would not poke or disrupt people around. To grow and evolve with logical thinking is a sign of stronger sense of sense of freedom which can be lacking if you don’t want to disrupt of go against the people around so it can be difficult but remember truths have to be told. Being comfortable in circle goes against our evolutionary nature as well but political belonging to our groups keep us attach to group norms. Having stronger sense of belonging can demote you to become a department head instead of you being a CEO of your life. Remember being a department head is less than being a CEO, that actually makes you dependent on others and keeps you weak personally yet by your nature or God you been blessed with the free will and a status of CEO. Logically you should have the power to create balance between your opposing senses of belonging and freedom and as a weaker individual you would not seek that power to balance your own mortal life. A stronger sense of belonging is the cause of a spiritual disorder which I call a disease to please others including God. So the question is do you believe in God for the sake of pleasing or you have your own logical explanations to live a happy mortal life?

Square People.

Or box people everything goes in, subservient, easy to take on shape and conform. Again similar to circle, non questioning, followers of all kind of rules, becomes religious and accepts being irrelevant so someone has to pull their strings, mostly beta so gets stressed in a leadership position. If you don’t see the boundaries of securities your stress level can go up to give you uncomfortable feelings so you make a very good worker bee or a warrior ant but a lousy human being. Our whole evolution is dependent on all people but if you are a worker bee or warrior ant you can’t think beyond your education provided by your belonging group. As human beings we are not genetically programed, quite the opposite we are genetically and spiritually programed to evolve so if you are not following your genetics and spirituality, you may be following your belonging groups orders. Yet by not evolving you are not following God’s orders. If you believe your religious boundaries can’t be crossed you need spiritual awareness as well because all religions preach that they are following God’s orders. This is a contradiction you personally will have to over come and solve and remember within your living years.

As an evolved human being, in today’s time we all have responsibilities so shapes or not we all have to be human beings. I have no problems with people having religious beliefs and sense of belonging but when they start wars and use God and individual for their political purposes I have to speak my mind. Whether its religion or nationalism we all should know that we have to evolve further and beyond the preached knowledge of our political groups. Remember we have evolved from racism, prejudice and discrimination, wait a minute did we evolve from all that? No not yet but its a lot better than what we had in even our recent past. At least today we are not proud of being a racist, prejudice and discriminatory, human rights are sought and maybe flourishing around the world in liberal societies. Humanity has been trying even with religious preaching to evolve but somehow politics of sense of belonging has always been able to tarnish our spiritual purity. Regardless of being a spiritual entity unfortunately human beings fight for the resources and territories just like other creatures yet to leave it all behind. Remember Egyptians they tried taking it all along because they thought life is only a circle, its proven they were wrong because today we are robbing their tombs yet we still believe life is a circle and nothing but.

Other creatures don’t know their mortality like human beings do, yet we still act like them and rob each other of our most precious things like life and love yet expect to have peaceful humanity. Religion or not, nationalism or not we all as human beings have responsibility to evolve and solve our individual and collective problems. Without bias, if you start to look in the history and even in present day living, our education level is a crucial part of our peaceful social living. People want to leave to places where they can raise their families in peace. Question is what kind of education? Remember book burning events, today we call fake news and pretty soon you will see faces put on the fake news to make it even more authentic. Unfortunately or fortunately our technologies are growing but one thing is for sure as human beings spiritually we are still living in the bush and cave times. Even the best of our knowledge and logical explanations did not work in past and still do not work for some of the people who can’t see beyond their groups promoted education and are blinded or brain washed by the politics of belonging.

Today’s example is Corona virus related political bickering which literally is killing people yet it is a reality of political differences not logical differences. Some even want you to pray to God to save you and if your prayers don’t work they blame you that you are not asking God honestly enough. They would ask you to get together, not to worry just believe God will save you. Science and preventative measures are just fake news by the scientific society. Proof is in the pudding, vaccination is helping but politics of belonging is killing. God can easily say that I gave you your personal free will for a reason, if you choose because of the politics of your sense of belonging, I gave you your sense of freedom as well. Remember you are not genetically programed to follow your group or a person because you are the main character in your own life story. Successful or not even God is standing aside for you to make your choices.

All our past and present disputes depend on this individual decision power. If our families, gangs, communities, nations and religions succeed, their success is standing on that individual’s personal decision, so they use politics to keep the individual weak, vulnerable, dependent, insignificant, unimportant and irrelevant. With lack of self confidence, self respect and self-esteem individual would consider themselves as a cell of a body part yet clearly its not the truth. Logically cell belongs to the whole body, just like that a human being spiritually belong to God and physically belong to humanity as a whole not to its pieces. Belonging to a group of people does not make any sense. If you are a human being, regardless of color, race, gender, size, nation or religion you are a human being. If you want to go further and try to dig for the differences, you will find nothing more than sameness. You are made up with the same material physically, you depend on oxygen, water and food, you are conceived and born the same way, you match genetically, live, get old sick and die the same way so where do our differences come from? Simply from the installed data of your belonging groups. Its directly connected to the politics of belonging and individual weakness. All you have to do is to look at it from beyond the boundaries of your group politics. God had nothing to do with it nor does the humanity so where do these problems come from and how can we solve them? Education, education and education, that is education of the individual not what they are wrapped up with. Its crucial for us all to know what human individual is, understanding our personal identities can us help reach that illusive peace humanity has been looking for with all its religions and isms.

Understanding of our realities are a must as well because our physical reality is clearly visible but as human beings we are not as simple as other creatures. We have our metaphoric realities and now a days even our virtual realities are becoming important as well. Progressively its become more important for us individually to take personal responsibilities to know about them. Simply put if you don’t really and clearly know anything about God you simply can’t kill anyone in the name of God because God is our metaphoric reality just like love and sense of belonging to our groups. Even if you put them all together, still they can’t become a physical reality like a human individual you are killing. You simply can’t rob someone of their physical reality over your metaphoric or virtual realities. When you rob someone of their physical reality all bets are off because human being is not simply a spiritual being who would understand and give you a break. Now look around in the distance past to recent past to even our present. What do you see? Do you see what I see? Never mind our history our present is littered with the business of robbing love of each other and yet we seek world peace, its not a shame to our political religions, groups or nations its a shame for us all to be weak and ignorant individually. If individually we don’t fuel the fire of prejudice no group of humanity can survive as a prejudicial and discriminatory entity.

Our politically tainted religions and nationalism are spiritually failed systems all because they could not stay pure of politics of belonging. Our physical reality is that we belong to humanity as an organism, sure we have all the rainbow colors but our realities are the same. Our spiritual reality clearly states that we belong to one God as a spiritual entity so we are the cells of God’s body as a whole. If you don’t believe, simply remove politics of belonging and see what you can find. In physical reality you are made of carbon, genetically you are a perfect match with each other regardless of your color, race or size. You need same environment and circumstances like oxygen, water and food to survive, you enjoy similar things and get hurt by the same things. Now the question is why all our disputes and wars? Shouldn’t we have evolved from our animal behaviors by now? If not our question should be why not?

Our trouble is that evolution is in our genes, yet being squares and circles make us or at the least politically inspire us to follow our sense of belonging to groups so there is a strong pull from both sides. No matter how natural our sense of belonging may seem, or how important for us to be a social creature. It has not been able to stop us from progressing and evolving. We have changed several religions we have a graveyard of empires, we have failed isms and we are still seeking perfection in our governing systems of democracies. Interestingly regardless of the strong pulls of our conservative politics, our progress has never been stopped by any era, governing system or even religious beliefs. Sure they took us back and forth but progress and evolution is still continually going. Where are we going is not the question but for sure we are not sitting still as our old style politics has been wanting us to do. Our evolution has been, is and will always be overriding the power of conservatism. They can create squares and circles around us but Godly created triangular knowledge is in the genes of humanity. It pokes outwards as it grows with knowledge. Politics or not this triangle has not been contained. All our progress and evolution came from questioning people. Fortunately if everyone would have listened to our religious people we still would be throwing virgins over the cliffs to please God. If everyone would be in circles or squares, we wouldn’t have sought out the causes of our problems. Today we are able to tell the path of the storm to save human lives, today we know where storm is going to hit days before it happens. Sure we all feel small and insignificant when a natural disaster happens but that does not mean we can’t do anything for our coming generations. We have to seek, seek and seek even if our conservative fellows say its meddling in God’s territory. Looking at our genes to me God almighty meant for us to do exactly the same what we are doing today all we have to do is to keep evolving. Sure it makes conservatives uncomfortable but they still have been joining and enjoying all the progress made by the liberals. Just look around our technology is used by all human beings our medicine is used without any discrimination of what ideology one is following. Vaccination for Corona is saving people regardless of their belief systems, color or nationality. Oh yes they shamelessly use everything but can’t help to complain about everything all along. If it was not meant for us to be an evolving entity, we would be still living in the caves and bush among other primates.

If I personally can’t figure out the solutions for my problems I would pray to God for more knowledge and evolution, I would not even think about what our ancestors did because we are born in the era of knowing and even giving names to our storms. Remember the saying God helps those who help themselves, so exhaust everything and leave no efforts before leaving things on God and even if you leave on God, God is not a monster who wants sacrifice of virgins. God is spiritual and does not need anything physical accept the good feelings of us helping each other to fulfill the prayers of the praying ones. Since we all have been already blessed with a functioning body, oxygen, free will and an evolving nature, we got all we need. Now its up to us human beings to take humanity where its going? Can I or should I predict optimistically or pessimistically either way it would be going in the zone of assumptions so I should restrain myself from it.

I am not saying a contradicting thing here, I am trying to explain that we need a triangular balance to be wise. If you remove God altogether and believe you are doing everything, what about your out of control systems of your functioning body like your breathing, beating heart and all other systems running without your input. To boot that supply line of oxygen? Do you really think you are in control or even have control over them? Bottom line is that as a human being we still have our metaphoric realities, we may not understand them yet but that does not mean God and Love or our other metaphoric realities don’t have any importance in our life. Since being scientific we can’t really break them down or understand them as our repeatable facts does not mean they don’t exist. They are powerfully spiritual, you may not be able to scientifically break them down yet but you simply can’t deny them just like our scientific society keeps a room for our placebo effects we need to be soft and keep room for further learning. Since evolution has its rhythm, not respecting it or giving time for adaptation can be harmful for even the strongest of human being. There is a very high number of people who are victims of stress simply because they don’t believe and look at life as a temporary period just because of their shape. If you fail to acknowledge mortality and rhythmic adaptation you may lose balance and suffer unnecessary consequences of your belief systems.

Interestingly throwing virgins and human sacrifice was practiced in twenty five non connected human societies, luckily we have been evolving so today I can Google things and talk about it. I find it fascinating that our prophets brought knowledge to help us evolve and today we have people going to space for pleasure. So our deeply curvy religious rail tracks would have to be straightened out to match our modern day speeding bullet trains of evolution. How are we doing? Well if you look at our extremely conservative societies like Saudi Arabia things are happening and slowly changing. From letting females to drive to building casinos to making peace with Israel is showing signs of erosion in extreme religious conservatism.

Regardless of any particular religion, if you believe and nurture your spiritual side that would automatically make you moderate and reasonably all around evolved human individual. If you ignore your spiritual side there is a very little difference between us and other creatures in the bush. We can be influenced by our hormones as well if we don’t acknowledge or are not taught about the powers of our inhibitions. Our problems start when we choose extreme because of our hormones. Unfortunately its impossible for us human beings to separate our spiritual and physical sides. So instead of choosing either or, we have to learn to create balance between the conflicting sides to live a successful mortal human life. If you choose extreme of any side that would work against the wisdom of being a human being. You can’t simply say being spiritual is all we need, or its superior and more important than being physical. If you have been taught to be spiritual exclusively its an extreme because my simple logic says nothing spiritual can be realized physically if its not done physically. All good thoughts are simply up in the air until someone converts them into physical actions. Meaning God and Devil become meaningless if there is no human to provide physicality to good and bad to exist. Now the question is, how do you use your gift of being physical? Are you a working hands of God or Devil? This is where your personal atom of autonomy comes in to provide you your free will, personal sense of justice and compassion. If you can understand all that you would automatically know that we should not do to others what we don’t like done to ourselves and to our loved ones.

Our evolution is not a human choice, its a duty by our nature but our mortality tells us a different story, so its not either or for us human beings. Its all about creating a personal and individual balance from within because we already know about our mortality. We as an individual simply can’t live for self exclusively nor we can live for our society because we are not genetically programed. Yet interestingly we find deep satisfaction in serving both. How that can be? If you please yourself and be happy does make sense but finding deeper happiness and contentment in serving others makes no physical sense but that is a reality what makes us unique. That is what puts us all over and above of being an animal. If we choose to fulfill one side exclusively that would be an extreme, which means the other side would be starved for attention from you and may act against you from within. Being torn from within is a spiritual disorder with long tentacles dug deep into our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. If you ignore the cause or causes, you will find band aid solutions for all your ills without reasonable success. If you go after the cause or the dead dog of your problem you would have better chances at living an all around healthier life. So avoid contradictions in your life and live honestly at the least with yourself.

If your shapes related urges come in the way of being spiritual, recognized them so you can become a better CEO of your life. Instead of following everything blindly, question everything while you keep your mortal nature in front. Purpose of this writing is to get you to understand your external influences and personal insecurities because they lead you directly in the arms of your belonging groups to be used politically. Know that, so you don’t live your life in the circle or a square you feel comfortable in. I would rather play a role in informing human beings instead of conforming them and reducing them to be used as worker bees or warrior ants.

Regardless of our prophet’s good and spiritual intentions, our religions never out grew their politics of belonging to certain groups so they fell victims of politics of belonging. If we taint our personal and collective spiritual system, or even our justice system with the politics both lose their purity and eventually lose their respect. If we keep following that path, eventually even God would become a prejudicial and discriminatory monster to some because people have been using God for political purposes as well. If God is for some but not all there is no God at all. Since God is a spiritual entity God can’t be political meaning God is universal truth like our justice. If you can buy justice, its not pure justice so it can’t be respected. Remember lady justice suppose to be blind, meaning literally blind of all politics of human beings.

Personally I believe if any entity or system is politically influenced its for some but not for all so its not Godly or just. If you can’t be honest in your spirituality and justice where can you be honest?

Importance of human beings and their physical functionality is so immense that even God and Devil disappear out of your life if you get inflicted with some kind of brain disorder. So to me our buildings of justice and spirituality are not only founded on but are standing on human beings all round healthy physicality. If you undermine and disrespect human beings everything would be still up in the air meaning they would not have any value and yes even you are talking about God and the Devil. A spiritual or criminal thought is just a thought and nothing more unless its converted into physical actions by the physically functioning human being. So correct your triangle and give respect to human individual as a main character of your holy picture. Remember spirituality can’t be spiritual if there is an injustice present. To me in most religions they made human individual as irrelevant and unnecessary yet if you remove the physicality of human individuals, everything logically falls or comes down crashing from the point of making sense. If you intentionally make human beings as irrelevant what is the purpose of it? Other than politics you have nothing to explain. For political control and power human beings have spread a lie to rob human individual for their importance. It would be wrong on all spiritual fronts and if you use God politically to me that would be even a spiritual crime. Eventually everyone would catch on and know that there is no honesty, so you literally are working against your own religious beliefs. If the whole picture of spirituality crashes without the physicality of human beings, why so much disrespect for the human individuals? Why so much killing? To me as far as I can see with my common sense related no non sense logical eyes, there is nothing spiritual about our politically tainted religions. Robbing human individual of their importance is one thing, brain washing and using them for political purposes is an other. Interestingly they don’t stop at human individuals they use God as well so do you really buy into whatever you are sold or you rely on your common sense to live your life with spiritual principles? Remember if you are killing each other you are chopping off the hands that convert spirituality into physical actions. Do you really think God is going to put you in heaven for removing Godly helping hands? If you think its a spiritual crime, you know the reasons, why our religious wars are longer lasting and are the bloodiest. I would talk about the respect of God, spirituality and human individual but would always talk against politics of belonging to our groups. Because they all preach prejudice and discrimination and I don’t believe in spirituality that has any room for prejudice and discrimination.

Since we are born as a human being, who carries their own atom of autonomy related human jewelry like free will, compassion, love and personal sense of justice to mention a few. We are an independent entity with our umbilical cords severed at birth. Being a human being we are a whole lot more responsible for our actions than we are taught to believe in our group settings. We come and go in life like a human being so logically we belong to humanity as a whole. Killing each other simply because of someone was born into opposing group or because of the color of their skin, race, gender, nationality or religion is spiritually as nonsensical as it can be. We use our free will every day in everything else we do but when it comes to the politics of belonging to our group we become nothing more than an animal or a genetically programed puppet.

We all need to take our next step into evolution and learn to belong to humanity as a whole. After all everything related to our present is pointing towards the need for humanity to work as one entity. Connect directly to God as a human individual so you can be a real spiritual entity. God and spirituality are universal so it does not make sense for us to belong to our political groups. Our politics of belonging has been making us prejudicial and discriminatory because of our group’s preaching. That has lead us to develop our weapons of mass destruction to use against each other. That means it has the potential not to chop off one helping hand of God but exterminate physicality of God. That is taking us in the wrong direction of evolution and going against everything belonging to God, spirituality and humanity as a whole. Biggest lesson we can learn from Corona virus is that our problems are universal. Climate changes should be an other teacher and is playing the same music for us all even our internet related crimes are pointing towards the need to change our old ways of living. Unfortunately our powerful sense of belonging to our groups pulls us in the direction where human individual is irrelevant. So instead of spirituality, equal human rights, and dealing with our prejudice and discrimination related politics we ignore all that to follow our group interest. Its all because we have been taught to believe that our belonging groups are our saviors, interestingly that has never been true. Simply look at it this way your belonging group does not provide you oxygen, nor it can make you immortal and oddly enough most crimes against individual are committed by their fellows from the same belonging group.

I wrote a blog titled know your realities, to explain why do we individually and really need to evolve and understand the politics of belonging to our groups vs belonging to humanity as a whole. If you don’t know or don’t understand your realities, there is a good chance that you ignore the understanding of reciprocation for the reasons of social conformation. For instance if you are a husband or a wife who brings the resources to run the household. You should be respected for providing physical help or contributions. Now depending where you live your social influences can destroy your personal relationships. Like if you are a religious household regardless of religion, makes a male above the female whether female is a provider or not. In today’s world with social liberation life literally can be walking on the egg shell, if not complied by the social norms. Today women are bread winners as well so following old rules for today’s problems may not be the answer. Sure there are security reasons, religions made male dominating figure but in today’s world things have changed so we need to change accordingly. God, government and big brother are our metaphoric realities, you may just see people but there are unseen figures quite active behind the scene of our modern living. I call them our metaphoric realities, very important but not as important that they supersede our physical realities. Sure they need to be respected but never over the physical realities of our life. For instance if someone is hungry food is the physical reality, God, government or big brother are not going to fill the stomach so they all belong to the things of our full stomach. Back to the point I am trying to make, if your husband or wife brings in the dough to fill your stomach they should be respected above and beyond every other metaphoric reality. Just to mention our societies are our metaphoric reality as well so if there is a trend or a friend is talking to you and you listen and destroy your good working personal relationship its all because your sense of belonging to your group has robbed you of your basic right to have happiness and contentment. Lets look at it this way, say you are a clean freak, you have to know why are you that way? You may care a little too much what people think about you. Meaning your sense of belonging is compelling you to have a spotless house, since you don’t want a dog or a cat because that would mess up your rug. Ask yourself how are you going to enjoy the love kids and pets provide you. In the end of the day we have to come to terms with what we really want. You may want a relationship but it requires you to change from being clean freak, accept a dirty house and compromise and sacrifice to get a different kind of deal. If the opinion of other people matter to you more than your desire to have love, you got a serious problem be as mortals if we don’t enjoy deep happiness, joy and satisfaction of love life simply is not well lived. I can point it through my writing but its only you who can look at your behaviors critically. Remember love is ancient and universal like God and spirituality, they all cross lines of human knowledge. Equally popular in all cultures and have no language, sure our chemicals play a physical role like other creatures but that is only one part of it. Scientific or not loving kids and pets is an undeniable and repeatable fact of human beings. If you want to spend your life worrying what other people think about your unclean house, get a grip on it. Love may not be measured by the science but it can touch your soul and is a spiritual priority for us mortals because it can give you not only deep spiritual satisfaction but happiness and contentment as well to be fulfilled. Remember as human individuals our life is not exclusively physical our spiritual fulfillment is crucial. Sure you can live scientifically correct and add all the numbers real fulfillment, well that would be an other story. You may think you will be fulfilled in the life after death, well that is for sure a story of after death so you can’t really put all your eggs in that basket. If you have built up a habit of being unfulfilled even God would not be able to satisfy you and would it even matter? If you think you would reciprocate, remember after being dead that choice has been taken because you can’t convert spirituality into physical actions anymore. Our ability to reciprocate is our ticket to our spiritual fulfillment and it requires for us to be alive and physically functioning. Regardless of the belief system or religion, if you are not honestly reciprocating, you would be hopping and worrying to find that spiritual fulfillment in beyond your living years. If you pray non stop, fast and do everything what your religions say but you are not that way with your partner, children, parents and fellow human beings you have it all wrong because God is a metaphoric reality and people around are our physical reality so our personal happiness and contentment of all kind is a must so ignoring that for whatever reason does not make any sense.

Remember in a mortal life we simply can’t afford that. Balance your sense of belonging and freedom and honestly learn all about the meanings of reciprocation. As usually preached reciprocation is not only between you and God, its between you, your partner, and even you and the society you belong to as well. Don’t forget you are the CEO of your life and a person in charge. If you somehow are leaving your relationships for the approval of friends and trends of your societies always remember our times have changed but our time has not so our happiness and contentment is just as important as it has ever been. Whether you were born in the bush and cave times or religious times or today our physical realities have not changed, so bottom line always comes to personal security and the comfort. Now it may not be popular to say in today’s times but still its our social reality that we still want the male to play a role in family protection. Don’t agree with me, you don’t have to but our situations still and naturally call for male to play a role of protector. For instance if someone breaks in, whether the bread winner is a male or female, usually male is expected to do the confronting. Now lets look at the responsibilities of reciprocation, if a male is expected to put his life on line to protect family members what is the reciprocation for it? As human beings the success of our mortal life is dependent on our reciprocation. We believe in our religions because they tell us we are alive because of God. I start to stray when they start to rob the individual of their importance. They can brain wash the individual to believe that they are totally irrelevant. Which robs them of their self respect and self-esteem so they don’t question and get used like puppets by the authorities. I believe, if we are being a physical reality we should be respect. This blog title is, Who Flipped My Triangle for a reason, if you look at your personal triangle at home whether you are a male of a female, you are the CEO of your personal lives. You should be on top corner and your sense of belonging and sense of freedom on the bottom corners. If for some reasons you feel it has been flipped you are the one who has to assume your CEO status. So you can keep other people related trends of society out of your personal business. You can keep your household protected and safe from all the metaphoric realities. Remember your home is your physical reality and that should be your top priority. Other people have a place in your life but only you should have a say. You simply can’t destroy your physical reality over your metaphoric ones, so respect your physical reality over your metaphoric one. Whole Sega of Afghanistan is related to this problem, if male is given the powers, what happens if the female is the provider or even if they both are equally chipping in, should our religious beliefs or animal traits be calling the shots? With our evolution things have changed to the point that for security we have created a big brother, so law enforcement is not in our individual hands. People usually call upon big brother instead of relying on our bush and cave time stuff. Anyway back to the issue at hand. If a female is bringing in the dough she needs to be respected regardless of what our thousands of year old knowledge says. Going to the other side, if a male is not respected for providing physical security its wrong as well, especially if you look at it with honest reciprocation point of view. Reciprocation is one of the foundational aspect to live a successful mortal life. Question is, if you are still living in the bush and cave times you will still act like as if you are there. As a dependent, if you are alpha by nature, would you let your animal nature call the shots or would you let your spiritual reciprocation help you keep your relationships in tacked? Your dependency on your partner is a physical reality meaning God, government and big brother are not your physical realities so remember at home you are the CEO. Put your responsibilities of reciprocation on the table and have an open discussion about the business of your relationship. Especially if your hormones or alpha nature is trying to poke its head out to rob you of your physical reality. If your traditions, customs, rituals and rules of past are killing or robbing your relationships. Its time for you to think yourself out of your problems by joining the present day era because one thing has not changed with our evolution and that is our mortality related limited time. So regardless of who brings the dough they should be respected for their physical reality based help. If you respect your metaphoric reality more than your physical ones you have an extreme related problems with your realities. God should be respected and reciprocated for our oxygen and a functioning body, but if someone feeds, clothes, and pays all the bills is disrespected that is not an equal reciprocation. So if you are religious and respect God but not reciprocating in your personal relationship, you are living more like a dominating alpha creature. Clearly means you are following your animal traits. If you know your responsibilities of reciprocation with God but not in personal relationships like with your partner, children or parents, you have to know why? And always keep in mind that you are in charge of keeping your triangles right side up. If you are shaped up by the society or bent out of shape because of it, its you who is going to live your life within your mortal skin and you are literally running out of time and yes even if you are young and strong.

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