From the health care to personal relationship to spirituality, it always takes two to tango.
Health care is a great spiritual and humanitarian thing, but it should come with the individual responsibilities. You can’t just believe that doctor would take care of everything regardless of your life style. Life still is lived but there are certain standards for the wellbeing and the quality of life. If you don’t participate in your own wellbeing you have a disconnection in several departments of your life. For instance God is in the same vicinity; if you believe in God it can be very useful in individual’s temporary life but just like the doctor, God can’t work alone. Whether it’s a doctor or God they need your input and cooperation.
Regardless of the disabilities, if you are putting too much emphases or reliance on the doctor or God, health and life in general will leave you behind. A doctor can suggest certain things to live better and God can help you to provide the oxygen but expect your input to have your life a successful story. Most people believe in God, pray to God for protection and believe that whatever is not in their control God can do it for them. The expectations of God are regarded as, all the impossible things are possible if the God is on their side true and questionable at the same time. God helps who helps themselves, that is what I learnt as growing up.
God has been on the pedestal, especially in the Eastern side of the world where people put a lot more on the God’s shoulders compare to the West. It is like you let the God drive your car, and have faith in surviving the accident. In the West, God is given a back seat or altogether dropped out of the car both are extremes and need balance. I believe God should be in the passenger seat as a guide. If you kick the God out altogether your life is quite heavy and burdensome. If God is your driver your purpose of having a free will disappears and you are not taking responsibilities given to you. For instance it is our responsibility to evolve, if we stop doing our share we can end up losing faith if God does not show up when needed regardless of the prayers.
A doctor can expect from you to put more efforts in your health area, but do you? You are expected to pull your end of the bargain, meaning your side of the wheel.
Whether it is relationship with your doctor, God or your spouse it takes effort from your side. If you think that the other side is pulling so you don’t have to do anything, your personal expectations can cause imbalances in your personal relationships whether it is with God, your doctor or your spouse resulting in your unhappiness.
In any kind of relationship, both parties have to pull, if one wheel is stuck, the cart will go in circle and you would not get anywhere. If you are a part of a couple pull the cart equally, house wife or a house husband is not the issue, its about pulling the cart equally. Don’t hold sex as a put out because it is not a favor card. Sex is the most loudly speaking proof of reciprocation which is for the two of you.
If everyone begins to put an honest effort, life can be much happier regardless of circumstances. You will be physically healthy because of your doctor and your efforts, your relationship would be stronger because the cart is being pulled by both sides and spiritually you would be happier and content with stronger faith in God, just because you took responsibility according to your abilities.
Whenever you feel proud of yourself, be humble because everything you have achieved or are achieving is done after you have taken in that little oxygen which is provided to you, and you have no control over it, inside or out side of you.
If you feel there is no God start looking at the abilities of your own body how it runs and how sophisticated it is. If you think it is still an accident that you are able to even think and retain memory, remember you are not a computer. You are the one who is running the computer. As a baby you are born with the computer and we all install or get the memory installed as we grow but you are complete before the installation of the memory. Scientifically or religiously nothing is complete because we have not reached our potential yet, the proof is in the learning new things, inventing new things and evolving everyday, so claiming whether there is or there is no God is still an assumption related with the probably twenty percent use of the capacity. When we reach one hundred present of our capacity then we can passionately argue about the existence of God, Until then don’t take pride and credit of the whole thing because you, your body, brain and all the installed knowledge is dependent on that little oxygen you are blessed with.
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